#GETINSPIREDBYCOMFORT STOP WAITING FOR PEOPLE's VALIDATION... YOU ARE YOUR OWN VALIDATOR.

Have you ever for once wondered why so many people find it so hard to make certain decisions. It is because they wait for opinions and advice from friends, they just have to wait for verdicts from someone before they make certain decisions. Don’t get me wrong am not saying you should not ask for help from someone who is ready to offer positive help to you(in whatever aspect of your life that you need help) but am saying enough of you waiting solely for what someone thinks about your own life. Stand up and decide for yourself what you want your life to be about, be intentional about yourself and your life.

Get this, of every 10 people you come in contact with or put better, of every 10 people you are waiting for their validation on things you intend to do about yourself  just 1 or maybe 2 people truly want the best for you & would only give you the best help that you need.

Some of these people you make or term your cheerleaders would sometimes only tell you the goods things you intend to hear over and over again, rather than point out some of your weaknesses and tell you how to channel conscious effort on how to work on them.

So today make up your mind to say to yourself “Omodunni you can do this if you put your mind to it, Yes you will come out really great in this if you keep trying” Tell yourself “ Olafemi you sure will get better despite how hard and rough this might be”

You are your own validator
Just God alone should give the Approval.
You own your life.
Make your decisions and take necessary actions because you want to and also because such decisions and actions would positively help you to grow not because someone thinks it’s the best for you.

#GETINSPIREDBYCOMFORT….YOU ARE LOVED

Written by Princess Comfort
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